It has not been in my prime yet to travel. I have not been able to really see many different cultures in action besides the little amount in our community. Saying that, I have actually been really privileged to learn a lot about the Chinese culture. My boyfriend lived in China for two years with his family's business. He has told me numerous differences between China and the United States. One of the biggest differences is the non-verbal communication of the general term politeness. Here in America it is polite when talking to others to make direct eye contact. It shows a great appreciation to our speaker that we are paying attention and listening really well. Over in China however, it is considered extremely rude to make direct eye contact for a period of time. This non-verbal gesture is considered extremely rude. My cousin is also adopted from China. My aunt has taught me so much about the culture and especially a lot of the differences between the two countries. Another example is the communication of beauty. In America we view beauty as being super tan. It sends the message of beauty in our country. In China, they view beauty as being pale. The Geisha’s wear white make-up to showcase their beauty.
Hoofie,
ReplyDeleteI too haven’t been able to travel outside the country to experience what other cultures are like. Though, I know that nonverbal messages have different meanings for different cultures. It’s interesting to hear that in China giving direct eye contact for too long can mean you are being rude. People in America prefer it and sometimes get insulted when you don’t give them direct eye contact when talking. Physical appearance is different within different countries. In America people are able to wear what they want. In other countries, women have to be covered up so that no skin is showing at all times.
Lauren