When it comes to choosing a possible romantic partner, there are many filters I use to eliminate people that I consider. I am not one to judge a book by its cover because I don’t my outside image matches my inside image. One thing I do look for is somewhat of height. I am a tall woman and it is often that men are shorter than me. My boyfriend is the same height as me so it works out. What I find unattractive in a man is when there is no personality and or they are too into themselves. My personality is all over the place and becomes very impatient with boring people. It is such a turn off when I cannot carry on a conversation with someone. Also if a man treats his mother poorly, that is another no-no for me. The way a man treats his mother is the same way he will treat his girlfriend. When it comes to Duck's theory, I do understand what he is saying. I can’t really put myself into his theory because I have only been with one person and I have known hi, since I was five so there weren’t any judgments when I 'met' him. I had a friend who was long distance for a while and I was so against it because how could there be trust? I would have eliminated that partner simply because of the long distance.
Hi Hoofie,
ReplyDeleteI also try not to judge people by the way the look. But there are definitely some things that I look for in a person, both physically and personality wise before I let them into my life. One of the first things I mentioned in my post was also about how I don't like guys who are full of themselves. I'm actually pretty short so it isn't hard for me to find a guys who's taller. I definitely prefer tall guys, I feel much more secure with tall guys. I like how you mentioned if a man treats his mother the same way he will treat his girlfriend, I agree completely. I usually rule out guys who aren't good with kids, I lovve kids so it's weird for me when guys don't like to be around them.